BlueHughes, I'm really sorry this is happening right now. Your request was simple. It wasn't based on any judgment of them. I think their reaction is ridiculous. I've had my share of boundary issues and feeling disrespected by my in laws so I totally get it. Then your spouse ends up in the middle.
Bottom line is: your house, your health, your rules.
In-laws came over, one had a bad cold, I told them to get tested and they shrugged it off. They are back on Christmas Day but I've told them to test negative or you're not coming in.
Wife supports me but also obviously doesn't want to take the opposite side to her family, who have travelled to see us.
It caused some arguments and now I feel awful because everyone currently dislikes me.
How are the family things going? Did your in-laws get tested? I hope for that...
It was your right to demand it. It's your house and you, it seems that as the only one there, act responsible trying to protect the whole family.
But I don't see And I don't feel But tightly hold up silently My hands before my fading eyes And in my eyes Your smile
I mistook stars reflected in a pond at night for those in the sky.
In-laws came over, one had a bad cold, I told them to get tested and they shrugged it off. They are back on Christmas Day but I've told them to test negative or you're not coming in.
Wife supports me but also obviously doesn't want to take the opposite side to her family, who have travelled to see us.
It caused some arguments and now I feel awful because everyone currently dislikes me.
How are the family things going? Did your in-laws get tested? I hope for that...
It was your right to demand it. It's your house and you, it seems that as the only one there, act responsible trying to protect the whole family.
In the end they understood and agreed, tested, negative, all is well.
The biggest anti-vaxx idiot case in Finland so far. Man threatens nurse with a dirty "hepatitis C" needle and pepperspray, demands nurse to inject salt liquid instead of real vaccine so he gets a "pass" on covid certificate. The man is now in police custody.
One good thing about music, when it hits you feel no pain So hit me with music, hit me with music
The biggest anti-vaxx idiot case in Finland so far. Man threatens nurse with a dirty "hepatitis C" needle and pepperspray, demands nurse to inject salt liquid instead of real vaccine so he gets a "pass" on covid certificate. The man is now in police custody.
The biggest anti-vaxx idiot case in Finland so far. Man threatens nurse with a dirty "hepatitis C" needle and pepperspray, demands nurse to inject salt liquid instead of real vaccine so he gets a "pass" on covid certificate. The man is now in police custody.
I REALLY can't understand what these people are afraid of. I assume not everyone is a nut and most of them think they have a reason. But what reason is this?
This summer someone set fire to one of the vaccination points and also the nearby local sanitary-epidemiological station in Eastern Poland. Despite the CCTV recordings, the culprit hasn't ben found.
But I don't see And I don't feel But tightly hold up silently My hands before my fading eyes And in my eyes Your smile
I mistook stars reflected in a pond at night for those in the sky.
It's feeling pretty bleak here. Part of it may be the darkness / being overcast but it seems like people are just really feeling beaten down. I know we're in good company, as in the rest of the globe, but it just seems people can't take much more of this. The numbers are exploding here. Sirens are back a bit, although not as bad as the couple of surges before.
The biggest anti-vaxx idiot case in Finland so far. Man threatens nurse with a dirty "hepatitis C" needle and pepperspray, demands nurse to inject salt liquid instead of real vaccine so he gets a "pass" on covid certificate. The man is now in police custody.
I REALLY can't understand what these people are afraid of. I assume not everyone is a nut and most of them think they have a reason. But what reason is this?
This summer someone set fire to one of the vaccination points and also the nearby local sanitary-epidemiological station in Eastern Poland. Despite the CCTV recordings, the culprit hasn't ben found.
I would understand if someone resorts to violence if he's _not_ getting the vaccine at the vaccination site, but why someone threatens with violence to not get the vaccine is out of my head.
There's been another worrying case, again having something to do with the requirement of covid certificate in many places. Some people in my province have been deliberately trying to contract covid-19 by going to families that have the infection. These people don't want the vaccine, they want the disease, probably to get a "pass" on the certificate.
One good thing about music, when it hits you feel no pain So hit me with music, hit me with music
I REALLY can't understand what these people are afraid of. I assume not everyone is a nut and most of them think they have a reason. But what reason is this?
This summer someone set fire to one of the vaccination points and also the nearby local sanitary-epidemiological station in Eastern Poland. Despite the CCTV recordings, the culprit hasn't ben found.
I would understand if someone resorts to violence if he's _not_ getting the vaccine at the vaccination site, but why someone threatens with violence to not get the vaccine is out of my head.
There's been another worrying case, again having something to do with the requirement of covid certificate in many places. Some people in my province have been deliberately trying to contract covid-19 by going to families that have the infection. These people don't want the vaccine, they want the disease, probably to get a "pass" on the certificate.
What you described is very similar to the behaviour of some parents in my country who don't want to vaccine their children against, for instance, the chickenpox. They organize so called chickenpox parties with one ill kid who is supposed to infect the others. When/if Covid certificates are introduced for real, I mean regulatory required, Covid parties won't surprise me.
But I don't see And I don't feel But tightly hold up silently My hands before my fading eyes And in my eyes Your smile
I mistook stars reflected in a pond at night for those in the sky.
It's feeling pretty bleak here. Part of it may be the darkness / being overcast but it seems like people are just really feeling beaten down. I know we're in good company, as in the rest of the globe, but it just seems people can't take much more of this. The numbers are exploding here. Sirens are back a bit, although not as bad as the couple of surges before.
Our resilience is being tested. I think people thought it would go away end of 2020. I guess because I work in a hospital i knew it wouldn't. Viruses are smart. They know how to survive. It will keep mutating and weaken until the last host is cured. Sadly the fastest way to do that is distancing, vaccines and masks but since not everyone is in agreement with that it remains alive and well. The flu never really leaves but it has gotten to the point where it doesn't kill as many people as it did. Anti vaxxers, anti maskers think covid19 is like the flu. It's not even close.