I agree with everything in this post. steve if you go to NYC or certainly my town (although fk knows why you would want to come to podunk) Spanish will be handy. It helps me at the hospital Donde trabajo.
Yeah, I think it'd be the most useful if only for the fact it's based in Latin & would give me have a chance at breaking into a handful of other Latin based languages too. Oh & for when I visit the States too
Not to mention how handy it is when visiting Spain & Latin America.
CW how to know if it is a hang out thing or a date thing.
Not windering if I’m overthinking things - because that is what we do, right? Overthinking things... is that even one word???
Want the story?
It’s long and actually not interesting - except for me... *sigh*
For some time ago, I was doing surgery with this doctor... somehow we began talking about the Cure (I might have mentioned how much I love Robert Smith), and he tells (proud) that he actually have a poster in his home woth Robert Smith (the bdc-one) and then we (I) talked a little more about the Cure...
Then we started to meet at the beach this summer - we met a couple of times with my daughters and woth my friends, just casual and ice cream eating post swimming hang out...
THEN he told me (just some time before I went to Hyde Park) that he saw somebody in the city where he lives (he diesnt live where he works, but 2,5 hours by car away, so he actually lives on the hospital, when he is working - and sleeps on his office, which is why I thought it would be nice for him to get out if the office sometimes, and that is why I have been taking him out swimming - also in the autumn)
We have been texting regularly, but not daily, and he has been encouraging to swimm the last time we went out, and after we had been swimming, he asked if I had time for a coffee... During the coffee, I asked about his bdc poster, and he told me that Robert Smith was hanging next to Bruce Lee, whom apparently is one of his big idols... well that makes sense(i) hahaha since he does have a black belt in karate...
Okay so far so good...
I might have become a bit interested in him lately, and I might also have been interested in him for more than a while, if we really need to be true... but I have also suppressed(?) my feelings, since he saw someone...
THEN I saw, that the way of the dragon (a bruce lee movie) has a repremiere, and I screendumped the poster and wrote: somebody has to go to the movie theatre, huh? And he answered: I have noticed that, are you interested?
So now we apparently are going to watch the movie together...
I offered to buy the tickets, because I have this app, and I get bonus points every time I buy tickets hehe, and asked him if he wanted the early or the late one - and he suggested the late one, and THEN HE SUGGESTED THAT WE COULD EAT TOGETHER BEFORE THE MOVIE!!!
I almost can’t handle it... mostly because I’m not in control, and because I don’t know if he still is involved with somebody, and because I don’t know if we are hanging out or what...
You can’t give me answers - I know, and I really don’t know why I’m telling all this... maybe because I’m not used to be in situations I don’t control, maybe because I’m not used to like somebody like I apparently like him - and do I really like him the way I think I do, or am I just excited?
I really hate when I don’t feel anything - which I don’t most of the time, but I realised that I might hate even more when I do feel - feelings are very confusing, and I am about to cancel, and stay home in my pyjamas with my dogs and watch a tacky romantic christmas movie and just protect (hide) myself from this feeling-situation...
If only I knew if it is hanging out with a colleague or dating a colleague...
For some time ago, I was doing surgery with this doctor... somehow we began talking about the Cure (I might have mentioned how much I love Robert Smith), and he tells (proud) that he actually have a poster in his home woth Robert Smith (the bdc-one) and then we (I) talked a little more about the Cure...
THEN he told me (just some time before I went to Hyde Park) that he saw somebody in the city where he lives (he diesnt live where he works, but 2,5 hours by car away, so he actually lives on the hospital, when he is working - and sleeps on his office, which is why I thought it would be nice for him to get out if the office sometimes, and that is why I have been taking him out swimming - also in the autumn)
We have been texting regularly, but not daily, and he has been encouraging to swimm the last time we went out, and after we had been swimming, he asked if I had time for a coffee... During the coffee, I asked about his bdc poster, and he told me that Robert Smith was hanging next to Bruce Lee, whom apparently is one of his big idols... well that makes sense(i) hahaha since he does have a black belt in karate...
Okay so far so good...
I might have become a bit interested in him lately, and I might also have been interested in him for more than a while, if we really need to be true... but I have also suppressed(?) my feelings, since he saw someone...
THEN I saw, that the way of the dragon (a bruce lee movie) has a repremiere, and I screendumped the poster and wrote: somebody has to go to the movie theatre, huh? And he answered: I have noticed that, are you interested?
So now we apparently are going to watch the movie together...
I offered to buy the tickets, because I have this app, and I get bonus points every time I buy tickets hehe, and asked him if he wanted the early or the late one - and he suggested the late one, and THEN HE SUGGESTED THAT WE COULD EAT TOGETHER BEFORE THE MOVIE!!!
A few things are apparent, @ninja:
1) He really wants you to see the poster in his home
2) You guys are going on a date
3) Since he lives at the hospital when he is working you *may* have to find a nice empty closet or room there soon. Doing it in someone's office is hot. Just don't get caught!
For some time ago, I was doing surgery with this doctor... somehow we began talking about the Cure (I might have mentioned how much I love Robert Smith), and he tells (proud) that he actually have a poster in his home woth Robert Smith (the bdc-one) and then we (I) talked a little more about the Cure...
THEN he told me (just some time before I went to Hyde Park) that he saw somebody in the city where he lives (he diesnt live where he works, but 2,5 hours by car away, so he actually lives on the hospital, when he is working - and sleeps on his office, which is why I thought it would be nice for him to get out if the office sometimes, and that is why I have been taking him out swimming - also in the autumn)
We have been texting regularly, but not daily, and he has been encouraging to swimm the last time we went out, and after we had been swimming, he asked if I had time for a coffee... During the coffee, I asked about his bdc poster, and he told me that Robert Smith was hanging next to Bruce Lee, whom apparently is one of his big idols... well that makes sense(i) hahaha since he does have a black belt in karate...
Okay so far so good...
I might have become a bit interested in him lately, and I might also have been interested in him for more than a while, if we really need to be true... but I have also suppressed(?) my feelings, since he saw someone...
THEN I saw, that the way of the dragon (a bruce lee movie) has a repremiere, and I screendumped the poster and wrote: somebody has to go to the movie theatre, huh? And he answered: I have noticed that, are you interested?
So now we apparently are going to watch the movie together...
I offered to buy the tickets, because I have this app, and I get bonus points every time I buy tickets hehe, and asked him if he wanted the early or the late one - and he suggested the late one, and THEN HE SUGGESTED THAT WE COULD EAT TOGETHER BEFORE THE MOVIE!!!
A few things are apparent, @ninja:
1) He really wants you to see the poster in his home
2) You guys are going on a date
3) Since he lives at the hospital when he is working you *may* have to find a nice empty closet or room there soon. Doing it in someone's office is hot. Just don't get caught!
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But I know how the bdc poster looks like... hahahaha And doing “something” at the hospital os NEVER going to happen... I decided yesterday, after trying to cry myself to sleep, that I just have to wait and see what happens. He is (for me) very difficult to read, so I will just have to wait and see if he maybe takes my hand during the movie, or maybe even kisses me when we say goodbye... But I’m still in panic!
But I know how the bdc poster looks like... hahahaha And doing “something” at the hospital os NEVER going to happen... I decided yesterday, after trying to cry myself to sleep, that I just have to wait and see what happens. He is (for me) very difficult to read, so I will just have to wait and see if he maybe takes my hand during the movie, or maybe even kisses me when we say goodbye... But I’m still in panic!
The panic is part of what makes it fun. But the uncertainty is hard, yes. I remember those times mostly fondly, though...
Will he find it strange, if I book seats in the cinnema in two different rows? (Row 3 and row 25) - or if I book 3 seats next to eachother, and tell the seat in the middle is for Robert Smith?
Will he find it strange, if I book seats in the cinnema in two different rows? (Row 3 and row 25) - or if I book 3 seats next to eachother, and tell the seat in the middle is for Robert Smith?
"I'm sorry, someone's come between us."
I think separate rows would be good. It will quickly relieve him of any notion of normalcy in whatever the relationship is.
On the way home from a gig, which featured a text book example of 'that guy':
Nowhere to be seen during support act or before the gig. Appears for the first hit. Pushes loads of people (who have been in their spots all night) out of his way. Is holding a glass over his head which he is slopping on to others. Once in the spot he thinks he deserves, turns and beckons friends, family, partner etc. to come and join him. Makes sure he is standing in front of partner etc even if blocking their view. Leans/staggers on people in front of him. Takes umbrage at any tutting aimed in his direction. Regularly hits people on head with flailing elbows. Whoops/shouts for further hits. Only knows songs from Spotify's top 10 (never noticed this before but so obvious for a vinyl era band!).
On the way home from a gig, which featured a text book example of 'that guy':
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Have I missed anything?
Yes, you missed, "holds phone up for 5 solid minutes just above his head, blocking everyone's view and digesting an experience through technology without his senses engaged."
On the way home from a gig, which featured a text book example of 'that guy':
<snip>
Have I missed anything?
Yes, you missed, "holds phone up for 5 solid minutes just above his head, blocking everyone's view and digesting an experience through technology without his senses engaged."
Do other countries do stupid shiat with their calendars, like having a national holiday where schools and the government are closed but all parents still have to work? How does this make sense?
Do other countries do stupid shiat with their calendars, like having a national holiday where schools and the government are closed but all parents still have to work? How does this make sense?
but what about all those veterans in training (kids)? fire up those video games!
Do other countries do stupid shiat with their calendars, like having a national holiday where schools and the government are closed but all parents still have to work? How does this make sense?
but what about all those veterans in training (kids)? fire up those video games!
Dur, I admit it took me a while to get this. A bit slow on the uptake, I am. Have lost lots of brain cells somewhere along the way.